resisting
Our lives are overwhelmed by possibilities, demands, actions, calls, schedules. We need to make choices more than ever and even faster. Making choices all the time is not easy. Most of the time we are never even aware of making choices.
We just go with the flow and it can be the best to do but it needs to be out of consciousness. But many times, it is without being aware and we might be much more satisfied by having resisted a bit longer and found out what we really needed to do. Resisiting makes us notice who we are, and it helps us keep our aim.